About this episode
<p><strong>17 years in, your husband's hidden kinks and porn habits are unraveling everything you thought you knew about him. Now what? Welcome to Feedback Friday!</strong></p><p>And in case you didn't already know it, <strong>Jordan Harbinger</strong> (<a href="https://twitter.com/JordanHarbinger" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">@JordanHarbinger</a>) and <strong>Gabriel Mizrahi</strong> (<a href="https://twitter.com/GabeMizrahi" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">@GabeMizrahi</a>) banter and take your comments and questions for Feedback Friday right here every week! If you want us to answer your question, register your feedback, or tell your story on one of our upcoming weekly Feedback Friday episodes, drop us a line at <a href="mailto:friday@jordanharbinger.com" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">friday@jordanharbinger.com</a>. Now let's dive in!</p><p><strong>Full show notes and resources can be found here: </strong><a href="https://jordanharbinger.com/1324" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"><strong>jordanharbinger.com/1324</strong></a></p><p><strong>On This Week's Feedback Friday:</strong></p><ul><li><strong>If you prefer the dooze cruise</strong> to tales from a food poisoning-riddled Disney cruise, <strong>skip ahead to around 20 minutes and 20 seconds!</strong></li><li>You've been with your husband for 17 years, married 13, three kids — and over the past year, the picture you had of him has been quietly unraveling. <strong>The "vanilla" guy you married has been hiding kinks, porn habits, and contradictions that don't match what he says he wants. Now you're wondering where private ends and dishonest begins.</strong></li><li><strong>You've always been great at interviews, but since having kids, you've been the runner-up four times.</strong> Hiring managers keep telling you it was out of your control, that someone else just had a specific edge. <strong>You're the common denominator</strong>, though, and <strong>you know there's something you can sharpen. Where's the move from <em>almost</em> to <em>absolutely</em>?</strong></li><li>You've always wondered how Jordan rattles off "that was episode 1192" mid-flow — is it prep, memory, or magic? And how much of his real-time outrage at a letter is genuine vs. performed? <a href="https://www.reddit.com/r/JordanHarbinger/comments/1sl3ame/questions_i_find_myself_routinely_having_as_a/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"><strong>You've been curious about the sausage-making of Feedback Friday for a while</strong></a><strong>, and today you're finally getting your answer.</strong></li><li><strong>Recommendation of the Week: </strong>Jordan recommends <a href="https://paintyourownpottery.com/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"><strong>Paint-Your-Own Pottery Studios</strong></a> as a fun family or friend-group activity.</li><li><strong>You're a fairly new listener who's never struggled with depression — but most of your community-theater friends have, and when they open up, you freeze.</strong> "I'm so sorry, do you want to talk about it?" feels emptier each time. You want them to feel seen, but you don't share their experience. <strong>How do you bridge that gap without faking it?</strong></li><li>Have any questions, comments, or stories you'd like to share with us? <strong>Drop us a line at </strong><a href="mailto:friday@jordanharbinger.com" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"><strong>friday@jordanharbinger.com</strong></a><strong>!</strong></li><li><strong>Connect with Jordan</strong> on Twitter at <a href="https://twitter.com/JordanHarbinger" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">@JordanHarbinger</a> and Instagram at <a href="https://www.instagram.com/jordanharbinger" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">@jordanharbinger</a>.</li><li><strong>Connect with Gabriel</strong> on Twitter at <a href="https://twitter.com/GabeMizrahi" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">@GabeMizrahi</a> and Instagram <a href="https://www.instagram.com/gabrielmizrahi/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">@gabrielmizrahi</a>.</li></ul><p><a href="https://itunes.apple.com/podcast/id1344999619?mt=2&ls=1" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"><strong>And if you're still game to support us, please leave a review here</strong></a><strong> — even one sentence helps! </strong></p><ul><li><strong>Sign up for </strong><a href="https://jordanharbinger.com/course" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"><strong>Six-Minute Networking</strong></a><strong> — our free networking and relationship development mini course — at </strong><a href="https://jordanharbinger.com/course" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"><strong>jordanharbinger.com/course</strong></a><strong>!</strong></li><li><strong>Subscribe to our once-a-week </strong><a href="https://www.jordanharbinger.com/news/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"><strong><em>Wee Bit Wiser</em></strong></a><strong> newsletter today and start filling your Wednesdays with wisdom!</strong></li><li><strong>Do you even Reddit, bro? </strong><a href="https://www.reddit.com/r/JordanHarbinger/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"><strong>Join us at r/JordanHarbinger</strong></a><strong>!</strong></li></ul><p><strong>This Episode Is Brought To You By </strong><a href="https://www.jordanharbinger.com/deals/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"><strong>Our Fine Sponsors</strong></a><strong>: </strong></p><ul><li><strong>Lufthansa Allegris: </strong><a href="https://www.lufthansa.com/us/en/discover-lufthansa/allegris" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"><strong>Go to Lufthansa.com and search for "Allegris" to learn more</strong></a></li><li><strong>1-800-Flowers: </strong><a href="https://1800flowers.com/jhs" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"><strong>2x Mom's blooms for Mother's Day: 1800flowers.com/jhs</strong></a></li><li><strong>Gusto: </strong><a href="https://gusto.com/jordan" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"><strong>Three months of free payroll: gusto.com/jordan</strong></a></li><li><strong>AT&T: </strong><a href="https://att.com/iphone" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"><strong>Get an iPhone 17 Pro for $0: att.com/iphone or visit an AT&T store for details</strong></a></li></ul><p>See Privacy Policy at <a href="https://art19.com/privacy" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">https://art19.com/privacy</a> and California Privacy Notice at <a href="https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info</a>.</p>